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Nichola511 Joined: 02/09/2008 Posts: 95 feel like ending it!!!

 

Hi ladies and bumps. Im currently 32 weeks pregnant with my 3rd baby and loving the whole experience again although Im not happy with my husband. He hasnt done nothing wrong is so loving in every way but most days I look at him and dont think I love him anymore. Sometimes I imagine he feels the same way in things he would say or the tone he uses. Im not sure if its my hormones playing tricks with me or these feelings are real. I cant remember feeling this way with my other 2 pregnancys they were girls( this a wee boy). Any Advice or anything to help would be great. Thanks ladies.  Nichola & 32 week Blue Bump xx

vicky201 Joined: 07/08/2007 Posts: 12 Re: feel like ending it!!!

i know exactly how you feel, i'm currently pregnant with my second (only 10 weeks) but already i feel like i can't stand my boyf being near me, i was the same with the last one tho, i suppose thats where my situation differs.  I just look at him and i have a sort of a nothing feeling i don't know if i love him or hate him i just don't want to be around him

When i felt like this last time, as soon as i'd had my little one, all my feelings came back and i was as in love with him as ever, but i know how you feel, especially when you say he seems to be loving a supportive, you can't seem to see why you would pick this moment to fall out of love!!

my advice would be to wait and see how you feel in a couple of months, this could all be a nasty trick your hormones are playing on you.  When you feelings are all over the place it's never a good time to make life changing decisions.  I hope this helps good luck.  Luv Vic + bump10w

danielle811 Joined: 05/01/2009 Posts: 97 Re: feel like ending it!!!

hiya love me inall im 33 weeks on thursday with my second,nd i've had a right crappy pregnancy, blead all the way through, am aneamic, nd just feel down all the time, which makes me nd my other half argue all the time it doesnt help that we havent slept wif each other in months wif me having random bleedsxx again my other half hasnt done anything or said anything to upset me i just dont want to speak to him sometimes because i know it will turn into an arguement because no matter how hard i try im just nasty to him :( i really dont mean to be i wake up and think "i'l try and be nice today" and it never happens, im due a section six weeks on thursday unless i pop before and we cant wait. i had severe post natal depression with my little boy(and had to stop taking my meds when i found out i was pregnant) probs didnt help xx talk to your other half and tell him how you feel it really does help, we have decided this will be the last time i get pregnant as we nearly split last time, Good Luck and not long left.Danielle, Mason 2 1/2 and 33 week pink Elephant xxxx

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