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donna811 Joined: 30/12/2008 Posts: 9 heartbroken again

 

Hi all l wrote on this site last december about my devestating miscarrage at 15 weeks which nearly killed me with grief. I have just found lm expecting again around 5-6 weeks and have started to bleed really heavy with lower cramps. I have been to the GP today who told me l am having a misscarrage and just to go home. Its knocked me for 6 again to top it all my other baby should be due in 2 weeks lm devestated just emepty

tracey001 Joined: 20/06/2007 Posts: 29 Re: heartbroken again

Hi Donna,

  I just want to say how very sorry i am.  I know slightly how you are feeling as last week i lost my baby at 14-15 weeks and i am still in complete shock and heart broken to say the least.  I just hope as each day passes the pain will ease a little.  As for suffering a miscarriage now you can go to your a and e department and tell them you are about 10 weeks and have started bleeding.  They will fit you into the early pregnancy assessment clinic tom, i know this wont change the outcome but it may give you a little hope if there is any xxx

feel free to contact me as a midwife i know a few tricks of the trade xxx tracey

donna811 Joined: 30/12/2008 Posts: 9 Re: heartbroken again

hi Tracey

First of all lm so very sorry for your loss l know exactly how you are feeling l lost my last baby at 15 weeks and didnt have a clue just found no heartbeat at 15 wks it was horrendous. We had a funeral and blessing which was beautiful but it really took its toll on me l was destroyed by greif.

Well at the minute lm not bleeding the bleeding lasted about 5 hrs heavy but no clots. I took your advice and went to A and E yesterday the dr said it might not be a miscarrage which has knocked me for 10 i haqve a scan on Monday at 10.00am. Im just so scared.

My thought are with you thank you for your kind words. Donna XXXX

 

tracey001 Joined: 20/06/2007 Posts: 29 Re: heartbroken again

 

Hi Donna,

  Oh wow so maybe all is good???  Please let me know how you get on with the scan tomorrow will be thinking of you. E mail address is traceyclark368@fsmail.net   I will be having a blessing and burial for the baby on tues not sure how i will cope as can hardly talk without crying at the moment

take care tracey x

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