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Hi all, i have to ask all of you mums and dad.

When i was pregnant with our 3 childs, my husband keep texting this girl from work that he said is a  good friend, the text is not normal its from as early as 7.30 until pass midnight, and one time when we had argument he walk out and he admit that this girl Coincidently had argument with his bf aswell and walked out too... my husband only go back home as i was treatening him to call the police as the car that he used is had no insurance. and he admit that he was going to pick this girl up.

then in 1 weekend he took our children out and met this girl in the park and that they actualy sat on the grass together watching the children.. this is all when im heavily pregnant with our 3rd child (the one that he want!!!) i nearly ended our marriage, and he beg me to stay. Told him that i wont be able to trust him anymore even that he insist that he done nothing wrong that him and her just good friend. I did gave him another chance.. and that he promise not to talk with her unless for business proposes.

Christmas dinner, he said he will go with the boys nite out.. and turn out he back 4 in the morning, i wasnt suspect anything, but on the next day i saw this girl tried adding him to her FB, which i make joke about it, and in the end i found out that actualy she was there as well, and that she fell and hurt her knee and out of 18 other people it have to be my husband that helped her!

Now he completly change, he stay in front of his laptop all evening, for up to 3 hours, away from me, and if i come near him, he will closed what ever his doing, if the phone ring or text, he took it away from me, but he told me who his chatting with and most of them is ladies friends, oh and also he chance all his passwords.

do you think his hiding something for me? as i did asked and he said he want his privacy, he often home late and leave early this is everyday. I made note on the calendar everytime he went home late, and he saw it to his friend and his friend think that i have mental problem.

i need advice i need to know what to do? is he having an affair? his mum didnt think so but of course thats his mum...

Yes your right to be be concerened it sounds suspect to me if he had nothing to hide and he knew how much it was upsetting you then he wont mind showing you to put your mind at rest,

Staying on the laptop for hours on end not letting you see his messages or look at his phone he is hiding something my partner lets me see his phone and i have access to his fb and even tells me if his ex has spoken to him, And his friends will defend him and lie to you to cover his tracks 

You need to ask him out straight if he's hiding anything or having an affair and tell him he needs to prove it there and then and ask to see his phone if he refuses then there is something but you need to see it when you ask for it so he don't have time to delete messages or numbers hope this helps                                                                                                                                                                                       

 omg i feel so sorry for you i think u want to kick him out and find sum one better theres loads of men out go girl go and have sum fun ur self see how he likes it  take care hunni xx

what do u think? yeas? corect.

he is a bad person u desirve better so do your kiddies.

when does he ever spend time with you and kids when he is so bissy with all he is doing? you have 2 children to watch and 1 on the way you dont need a man woo needs watching over aswell.

hope all works out for u take care and good luck.

 You dont need all these hassles babe. FOLLOW your head and not your heart but then it's up to you. Hope it all works out fine.x