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hi i have just found out i am pregnant ive nt been the doctors yet 2 get it comfirmed as i am ringin them 2moz bt i av dun 2 test an they wa both positive. i think im about 5-6 weeks bt last time i found out at this stage i ad an early scan an had a misscarriage since then i had my little girl who is 1 on wednesday wi my daughter i had a health pregnacy every thing went fine bt i am worried there might be sumfin wrong. i think im just worrin over nothing cos of wot happened last time shud i just treat it as a normal pregnacy? any surrgestions on how 2 cope wi a 1 yr old on bein pregnant at early stage cos i dont want 2 get 2 stressed? any surgesstion plz thanks x

ok first thing you need to do is reeelllaaaxxxx!!!!

next thing dont start thinking of the what ifs till you've had it confirmed!! us women have crazy bodies and can make us think things are there sometimes when there not.

once you've had it confirmed,make sure you take folic acid straight away 1 tablet every day....and eat a healthy balanaced diet.

believe me i know how your feeling hun....when i first found out i was pregnant i was thinking omg im gonna loose the baby at every twist and turn im now 37+4 weeks and it still runs through my mind.

with this being my first child i cant really comment on how to cope with a 1 year old and a pregnancy....but i am a nursery nurse and iv coped very well with the younger children while i was at work until i went on maternity leave. best thing i would say is try an explain as much as possible and make your first child as prepared as possible for the new arrival....it may be difficult at 1st with her only being 1 but thinking about it as the end of your pregnancy draws near your daughter will be nearly 2 and maybe more capable of understanding

good luck hun

kelly and pink bump x