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sorry, just need to say this, bit of a rant, im 36 weeks pregnant and my partner and me had an arguement i told him to go, i didnt mean it though and he just went and now hes said he doest want to be with me, and nothing i say is going to change that, ive cryed for the past 2 days begged him to come home and hes just said that hes fed up of the argueing. i just seem to have made things worse between us. i really dont know what to do with myself, hes not comming home again ever and i cant stop crying. its not good for the baby and my 15 month old little girl just seems to either cry or stand by the door like shes expecting him to walk through it, i feel so bad but all he cares about is how he feels, doesnt care about the rest of us. charlie, skye and bump 36 weeks

it's easier to say,than to do....but try a little of your bf's tactics.....think about just you,your lil girl and bump..the crying is probs not all down to the split,your hormones will be playing apart aswell at the moment..if you appear to have lost it and are begging your man to come home,then that maybe too much for him and he may back off even more..am sure he is worrid about the imminent arrival and how he will cope,just as much as you..........try and take adeep breath,have a cuppa and start again..spend time pampering yourself and playing with your lil girl..that way you will both be more relaxed and more in control to deal with this situation..if you are calmer when you speak with your bf..he is more likely to listen..well!!! as much as men listen anyway.good luck,with the bf and the birth

Hello Charlotte 811. I've just joined and came across your posting. Was just wondering how you are now? It was a few weeks ago so things may have changed some what.