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its been a while since i was last on here, infact my son is now 2 so a good couple of yrs! i have just found out that im pregnant again with my 3rd child this time,argh!was not planning this, im so frightend. things are different now, we bought a bigger house and new cars, you know like you do!now im worried about money and managing! i have already decided that abortion is not the right thing for me and iv told my partner who is supporting me, i sed we either manage or split and he sed, simple then, we manage! i know there is not a lot any1 can say to me, but i just feel better by writing this! oh god, i really cant believe it!! dont think it feels real yet :)

kerry.

Hi! Ive just found out im expecting my 3rd too and also very shocked my youngest is 8months and oldest 5yrs i considered abortion but when doctor told me what happens i thought no way, i have just returned to work and also we are thinking about how we going to manage but i just hope it all works out. how many weeks are you?

Congratulations to you both!

My 3rd was also unexpected - but he's the best thing that could have happened, he is the most placid, happy baby I've ever met. The complete opposite to his 2 highly strung sisters! I had the girls 21 months apart, and thought my nappy days were over, but then he came along when my eldest was almost 5. The transition from 2 to 3 was nothing like i imagined, it was much easier. I think with 2 older sisters he's used to waiting for things, and he's had to fit in with out school runs and other routines.

I would say don't panic - everything happens for a reason, and if your 3rd's are anything like mine you'll be fine.

I'm also expecting my 3rd unplanned, and also thought about termination, your post is very reasuring amanda!

It was a complete shock, although I'm happy about it now, there was a few days when my head was all over the place! I'm just a little concerned that my first scan and booking in isn't untill week 12 and I've started putting on weight big time (I think I'm almost 9 weeks) and I wanted to keep it fairly quiet until I've had the scan, I think will start guessing!

When are you 2 due?

nice to see im not alone! i have litterally on just found out a few days ago, im 5 weeks now and a little worried! my eldest son(taylor) is 8 and my youngest(joshua) has just turned 2, my pregnancy i had when trying for joshua ended up in a miscarraige at about 7 weeks (whilst on a family holiday in ibiza) so im not telling many people yet, iv told my mum and sister but thats it. even tho this baby was not planned i would be devastated if i lost it!